Host family and agency red flags / 寄宿家庭与机构避坑
Use this thread to compare host-family expectations, rematch rules, boundaries, childcare load, house rules, and agency transparency before you commit.
这个帖子适合在确认匹配前，比较寄宿家庭预期、换家庭规则、边界、照护工作量、家规和机构透明度。
What to confirm in writing / 哪些事情要书面确认
Childcare hours, private room, days off, pocket money or stipend, language expectations, and local support after arrival.
每天照护时长、是否有独立房间、周休安排、零花钱或补贴、语言期待，以及落地后的本地支持。
Whether the family or agency keeps changing promises, asks for rushed payment, or avoids written terms.
对方是否不断改口、催你快速付款、或回避书面约定。
Discussion prompts / 社区讨论引导
Share practical checklists, warning signs, and what helped you avoid a bad match.
欢迎补充实用清单、危险信号，以及你是如何避开不靠谱匹配的。